Hi Bryan, I really liked your post. Very straight forward, and well explained. The biggest problem I have ever had in setting up a suspension is finding the correct parts. You can buy 5 pairs of shocks,, and they will all have benefits, and shortcomings. The two most consistent improvements I have found have been in the front suspension. Trial, and error testing w/ various weights of shock oil, and adding/subtracting the pre load collars in the forks. As a general rule I have found Heavier oil combined with a higher pre load will make the front less prone to collapse, and MOSTLY eliminate the oscillation on high speeds. The rear suspension is much harder to dial in because as you pointed out all that can be adjusted is the preload, unless you go w/ a HI $ adjustable rate gas shock, and even then it may not suit your needs. Bottom line for ME is spend the time, and money tuning the front for the best response, and anything you do for the rear from there may be a bonus.