If you are happy for her, you must think he is OK. To get an OK guy for your daughter is a blessing. There are too many non OK guys out there. I have 4 daughters, 3 married OK guys and they and I are happy, one is divorced. I am glad she divorced him, I knew from when she met him that he was not an OK guy, he could not keep his dikk in his pocket. But she was in love too young. The fatboy is not a problem. You are blessed. Btw, the non OK guy has had 3 wives and is now just shacking up.
Richard L.