Vespas are wierd & ridiculously expensive. I've never had a problem just playing it by feel. Anyway, Chinese parts are so cheap you can afford to learn on the job. On airplanes you always have to use a new nut, but on scooters, I usually replace the nut every two or three times. If it's too loose, the nut soon flies off with a helluva bang, but just tighten it up a little more the next time. If you're really worried, use a torque limiter (not cheap!)