Sorry for your troubles. Long post, here's some thoughts:
1. The dealer is weak at trouble shooting - this is normal.
2. Don't guess at whether the head / cylinder jug is warped test it with a straight edge. Basically a perfectly straight ruler on edge laid against the cylinder head. There are fancy gauges but this is a start.
3. Pressurize the radiator with a tester and see if the needle falls under pressure which indicates a leak.
4. Compression test dry and wet - provides good basic info about possible leaks - head gasket, valves, total max compression dry/wet (adding a squirt of oil to the cylinder provides a temp seal).
5. Leak down test - look it up, it should have been done and should catch a leak from a warped cylinder / head.
6. Most likely exhaust gas is getting into the coolant. Consider taking the scooter to a small engine builder - have them tear it down, measure the parts - or send to a machine shop to test if the parts are in spec then they put parts back together if good and replace any if bad (out of spec).