Thw wiring for the actual bike (2013 DT300i) is different than the wiring diagram. The low current start relay (Starter Mag 1) the diagram says powers the high current starter relay (Starter Mag) does do that, sort of. The difference is the little relay is activated by the key on, not the start push button. Now, why the little relay is actually there is a mystery to me at this point. I got tired and discouraged and just put everything back together.
The project was intending to install an additional relay to kill the lights during start sequence. Later, maybe but not today.