Ok, if you have movement of the nut, up and down, on the rocker arm on both strokes of the piston (exhaust and compression)...you will need to find the compression stroke. Remove the sprark plug and put your finger tip over that hole , you will feel the air compressing on your finger as you rotate the engine on the compression stroke. Align your 3 sprocket holes, set your valve gap. With your finger covering the spark plug hole ..you should feel air blowing against it on the compression stroke..and feel nothing when you turn forward the engine 360 degrees.
Your should be able to grab the rocker arm and move it on compression TDC that tiny amount...and feel no movement on the next stroke! (Exhaust stroke)
If you do not obtain this mechanical result, please consider taking it to the dealer. Do NOT ride it to the dealer if you are not certain you have not adjusted the valve lash properly.
Please let us know what you find ....and advise if you are still uncertain that you have found the COMPRESSION TDC. We can talk you thru other ways, more complicated, to check this.
Stig