Thanks for the help all.. I think i will start with tyre pressures, although i dont think this is the cause, it might help to soften the effect.
Im pretty sure its not a bent axle, during normal riding the bike is smooth as silk. even on hard front braking its pretty smooth, its when im just touching the brake a little bit.. im kinda used to it now, but i will continue to check odd things here and there, plus if anyone has any other ideas.
thanks!