You seem to be hurt because science says different than your personal, subjective opinion.
I cannot change your opinion, it would be futile, you are free to believe anything you choose to, including pink unicorns, Buddha and Evil Ethanol.
However, just to add to this discussion if you did not understand already, what you call "rubber" can actually be hundreds if not thousands of different chemical compounds with different properties and resistance to influence of other compound. Some might be completely unaffected, while some might be incompatible with ethanol, while generally, gasoline is more corrosive to "rubber like" compounds than ethanol. That's it, nothing more, nothing less.
Vehicle tire rubber for example deteriorates exposed to oxygen in air so that it has to be discarded after 60 months because it dangerously changes its properties. Claiming that rubber like compounds used in and around vehicle engine, exposed daily to extreme engine temperature, various elements like fuel, oil, dust, water and dirt, change of external temperature from -20 to +60 in the summer - change their properties ONLY because of ethanol in fuel (5-15 % of total fuel volume) is twisting the facts at best, or being a poor analyst of underlying causes of issues.
I have no better source than sources based on real empirical data and science.
So, you are left to yourself to believe what you want.